Accommodating men in your life
Some people, who are inquisitive enough to reflect on their own behavior, realize that they are clingy and start thinking about how they can address their behavior in present or future relationships.The reason that being needy and clingy is so unattractive is obvious: first, it makes the other person take you for granted and not see any value in you.If you are always around, always available, and you schedule your life around your partner all the time, this means that no effort is required to please you or to be loved by you.Secondly, clingy behavior inevitable creates an impression that other things in your life must not be all that great and all that important, if your partner is by far the most important thing in your life and your main focus.
At first, making someone an absolute priority in your life will be flattering to them, but very soon it will look like a big weakness.
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